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Friday, 20 February 2015

15 February 2015 - Courtroom Session & Saving from Punishments in the Grave

15 February 2015 - Courtroom Session and Saving from Punishments in the Grave



Lives of the Prophets: Courtroom Cases


Case 1:

The case of 99 Sheep and a good talking man with one man and his only sheep

Case 2:

The case of Sheep grazing in neighbours field destroying his livelihood

Case 3:

The case of a worshipper admiring horses and missing their prayer

Case 4:

The case of what to do with the first batch of Prisoners of War

Case 5:

Mothers disputing about whose child survived the wolf attack


Case 1:

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Once Dawud* was in his private chamber which was the best and holiest place in his house. He had ordered that none was to invade his privacy that day. He suddenly found two persons who had climbed over the wall of the private chamber asking him to judge between them.
"Has the Story of the Disputants reached thee?
Behold, they climbed over the wall of the private chamber; when they entered to Dawud* and he was terrified of them, they said: 'Fear not: we are two disputants, one of whom has wronged the other: decide now between us with truth, and treat us not with injustice, but guide us to the even Path.
This man is my brother: he has nine and ninety ewes, and I have (but) one: yet he says: 'Commit her to my care " and he is moreover harsh to me in speech.'
(Dawud*) said: 'He has undoubtedly wronged thee in demanding thy (single) ewe to be added to his flock of ewes: truly many are the Partners (in business) who wrong each other: not so do those who believe and work deeds of righteousness, and how few are they?'
And Dawud* gathered that We had tried him: he asked forgiveness of his Lord, fell down, bowing (in prostration) and turned (to Allah in repentance).
So We forgave him this (lapse): he enjoyed, indeed, a Near Approach to Us, and a beautiful Place of (final) return." (TMQ Saad: 21-25)

* Hence – do not jump to conclusions until you hear both sides of the story. Once you make a mistake immediately ask for Allah’s forgiveness. It is important to learn in improve after mistakes.

Case 2:

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"And remember Dawud* and Solomon, when they give judgment in the matter of the field into which the sheep of certain people had strayed by night: We did witness their judgment. To Solomon We inspired the (right) understanding of the matter: to each (of them) we gave Judgment and Knowledge."
It was recounted by many narrators that those people had a vineyard, wherein the sheep of the other people had spread, i.e. trespassed on by night and ate up all its plants.
They raised their case to Dawud* and he awarded the owner of the field the sheep themselves in compensation for his damage.
When they went out and met Solomon, he asked them, "what did the Prophet of Allah rule?" They answered, "He ruled so and so."
He said, "Had it been up to me, I would have ordered the sheep to be handed to the owners of the vineyard to benefit from its yield and profit until the owners of the sheep have restored the vineyard of the other people to its previous condition, and then they could have their sheep back."
When Dawud* was informed of this, he approved it.

*Hence – both judged with the facts and made correct decisions but one was closer to justice than the other. It is important not just to have a Just Law (Shariah) but also a Just Judge (with Iman) who applies the Law appropriately. Throughout the many centuries of Islam and the Islamic State Muslims have grown up with the idea of variations in application of the Shariah and this has led to tolerance of different opinions as Islam is not a monolith and Shariah is more than simply the Hudood. There is no territory today that applies Islam even though they may claim to.


Case 3:

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The Story of Solomon* with the Horses: Allah says in Surah Saad:
"To Dawud* we gave Solomon (for a son)" and he was a Prophet "how excellent in Our service! Ever did he tum when (to Us)!"
"Behold, there were brought before him, at eventide, horses of the highest breeding, and swift offoot; And he said, 'Truly do I love the love of Good, with a view to the glory of my Lord '-until (the sun) was hidden in the veil (of Night):" (Saad: 32)
Some scholars say that Solomon* was so engrossed in the inspection of his fine horses that he completely forgot to perform his Asr prayer before the sunset (not deliberately).
Upon missing the 'Asr prayer, he said, " 'Bring them back to me.' "Then he fell to slashing (their) legs and their necks with his sword.


Case 4

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Prisoners of war constituted a problem awaiting resolution because it was a new phenomenon in the history of Islam after the Battle of Badr. The Prophet* consulted Abu Bakr and ‘Umar bin Al-Khattab as to what he should do with the prisoners.
Abu Bakr suggested that he should ransom them, explaining this by saying: "They are after all our relatives, and this money would give us strength against the disbelievers, moreover, Allâh could guide them to Islam."
‘Umar advised killing them, saying, "They are the leaders of Kufr (disbelief)."
The Prophet* preferred Abu Bakr’s suggestion to that of ‘Umar’s.
The following day, ‘Umar called on the Prophet* and Abu Bakr to see them weeping. He showed extreme astonishment and inquired about the situation so that he might weep if it was worth weeping for, or else he would feign weeping.
The Prophet* said that a Qur’ânic verse had been revealed rebuking them for taking ransom from the captives rather than slaying them: "It is not for a Prophet that he should have prisoners of war (and free them with ransom) until he had made a great slaughter (among his enemies) in the land. You desire the good of this world (i.e. the money of ransom for freeing the captives), but Allah desires (for you) the Hereafter. And Allah is All- Mighty, All- Wise. Were it not a previous ordainment from Allah, a severe torment would have touched you for what you took." [TMQ 8:67-68]
The previous Divine ordainment went as follows, "Thereafter (is the time) either for generosity (i.e. free them without ransom) or ransom." [TMQ 47:4]
Which included an area providing permission to take ransom, that is why no penalty was imposed.
They were rebuked only for taking prisoners before subduing all the land of disbelief. Apart from this, the polytheists taken to Madinah were not only prisoners of war but rather archcriminals of war whom modern war penal law brings to justice to receive their due sentence of death or prison for life.


Case 5:

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Abu Huraira said, that the Messenger of Allah* said, "Two women had their sons with them, and suddenly a wolf passed by snatching one of the two boys.
Thus they fought over the other.
The elder said, 'The wolf took your son', and the younger said, 'No, it took yours.'
They raised their case to Dawud*, who ruled that he was the elder's.
They went out and met Solomon*, who said, 'Bring me a knife and I will cut him into two, for each to take a half.
'The younger thereupon said, 'Do not, may Allah have mercy on you, he is her son.
Thus, he ruled that the child was hers. " [Bukhari, Muslim]

*Hence – the element of surprise from Solomon* allowed him to assess who really loved the child and would rather give him up than have him killed.



Main Topic: What protects us from the Punishment of the Grave?


The good deeds

The Prophet* said, “When the dead person is buried, he is able to hear the footsteps of the people when they are leaving the cemetery. Then his good deeds will surround him.
So Salah would come next to his head; fasting would come on his right side and
Zakah would come on the left side.
The other good deeds would come next to his feet.
So whenever this person would be attacked from the head, the salah would say, ‘No you cannot come from this side.’
And whenever the attack is from the right side, the siyaam [fasting] would say, ‘No, you cannot come from this side.’
The Zakah would say, you cannot come from this side.
And the other good deeds would say, you cannot from the feet.
And they would be making a shield, surrounding this person from every side and protecting this person.”


Seeking refuge in Allah from the punishment of the grave

The Prophet* said, “When you make tashahud, seek refuge in Allah from four things:
- from punishment of the hell fire,
- from the punishment of the grave,
- from the fitna of life and death, and
- from the fitna of ad-dajjal (the false messiah).”

It is a sunnah to say this [Du'aa`] during salah, after tashahud (before salaam).


Who are the ones that are saved from the punishment of the grave?

The Martyrs (shuhada)

The Prophet* said, “There are six qualities for the Martyr (shaheed): he would be forgiven with the first drop of blood that comes from his body; he would see his place in paradise; he would be saved from the punishment of the grave; he would be saved from the fear of the most fearful day; the crown of tranquility will be placed on his head – one emerald in it is worth the world and everything in it; he would be married to 72 hoor al-ayn; he would be given shafa’aa (intercession) for 70 of his relatives.”
One of the companions said, “O RasulAllah, how come the believers go through the trials of the grave, but the shaheed doesn’t?” The Prophet* said, “The shining of the swords over his head is enough of a fitna for him.”


The Frontier Guard (Al muraabit)

They are the soldier who is positioned in a station away from home, guarding the Muslims, waiting for instructions to fight. The word comes from ‘rabat’ – when you tie something. Al muraabit is someone who is tied to that post – they cannot leave. That guard/soldier has to guard day and night. It is a very difficult job. Because of that, Allah gives him a special reward. The Prophet* said, “Everyone’s deeds would be terminated they die, except for the one who dies as a muraabat. Allah would continue his deeds for him, and they would keep growing until the day of judgement, and he would be saved from the punishment of the grave.”


Those who die on Friday

In a hasan hadith, “Any Muslim who dies on Friday, Allah will save him from the punishment of the grave.”

Read Surah Mulk

Imam Ahmad recorded from Abu Hurayrah the Prophet* said, "Verily, there is a chapter in the Qur’an which contains thirty Ayat that will intercede on behalf of its reciter until he is forgiven. (It is): ‘Blessed be He in Whose Hand is the dominion.’" Ibn Abbas narrates that the Prophet* said, “It is a protector; a rescuer; saving from the punishment of the grave.” (At-Tirmidhi and Al-Hakim.)


Deeds that Benefit after death

Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet* said, "When a man dies, his good deeds come to an end except three: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, and righteous offspring who will pray for him." (Muslim)

Commenting on this hadith, Imam An-Nawawi said, "The scholars said, the meaning of this hadith is that the deeds of the deceased come to an end as soon as he or she dies, and the renewal of reward ceases for him or her, except in these three cases because he or she is the cause of them:
• his or her offspring is counted among his or her earnings,

• the knowledge that he or she leaves behind through teaching or writing,

• ongoing charity, i.e., a waqf (Islamic endowment)."

The narration below adds further details: Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet* said, "The good deeds that will reach a believer after his death are:
- knowledge which he learned and then spread;

- a righteous son whom he leaves behind;

- a copy of the Qur'an that he leaves as a legacy;

- a mosque that he built;

- a house that he built for wayfarers;

- a canal that he dug;

- or charity that he gave during his lifetime when he was in good health.

- These deeds will reach him after his death."
(Ibn Majah)


[We also talked about some other etiquettes of visiting the Graves such as saying ‘Salaam’ to the ‘People of the Graveyard’ who will reply back]


May Allah protect us, our families and all of the Muslims from the punishment of the grave. Ameen.

Monday, 3 November 2014

02 November 2014: Musa marches on Jerusalem, Slave Mentality and Death

02 November 2014: Musa marches on Jerusalem, Slave Mentality and Death

Lives of the Prophets: Musa* and Bani Israel


Events in the promised land do not have chronology documented but there are numerous important events. Upon the departure of the Children of Israel from Egypt, Allah promised them a homeland in which to dwell. Bani Israel were saved from Pharaoh and free from Slavery but they just were not up to controlling their own destiny (more on this later) despite being shaded and being given food and water:
And (remember) when Musa said to his people: "O my people! Remember the Favour of Allah to you, when He made Prophets among you, made you kings, and gave you what He had not given to any other among the 'Alamin (mankind and jinn, in the past)."
"O my people! Enter the holy land (Palestine) which Allah has assigned to you, and turn not back (in flight) for then you will be returned as losers." They said: "O Musa! In it (this holy land) are a people of great strength, and we shall never enter it, till they leave it; when they leave, then we will enter." Two men of those who feared (Allah and) on whom Allah had bestowed His Grace said: "Assault them through the gate, for when you are in, victory will be yours, and put your trust in Allah if you are believers indeed." They said: "O Musa*! We shall never enter it as long as they are there. So go you and your Lord and fight you two, we are sitting right here."
He [Musa] said: "O my Lord! I have power only over myself and my brother, so separate us from the people who are the Fasiqun (rebellious and disobedient to Allah)!" (Allah) said: "Therefore it (this holy land) is forbidden to them for forty years; in distraction they will wander through the land. So be not sorrowful over the people who are the Fasiqun." (5: 20-26)
Such a strange response from Bani Israel who were told not to turn their back during the fight – they even refused to fight and would only accept Jerusalem if the people living their left! They then wanted Musa* to fight alone and deliver it to Bani Israel! This upset Musa* and then Bani Israel were denied the Promised Land for 40 years – until that entire generation that refused had died. Only 2 from Bani Israel actually wanted to fight for the land Allah promised them. One other narration states that Musa* asked the Angel of Death to take his soul as he flew over the Promised Land.
During the Battle of Badr the Sahabae reassured the Prophet* that they would fight with the Prophet* and not be like Bani Israel with Musa*!

Main Topic: Slavery & Slave Mentality
In order to understand how Bani Israel reacted to their ‘freedom’ and how they dealt with Musa* we need to study the collective mentality of people in slavery. Below are characteristics of slaves or peoples who have been born into slavery. Although these are generalisations, there is sociological evidence to support these attitudes. It does not mean all slaves have all of these but taken together most people in hereditary slavery have elements of these.
People in slavery tend to:
  • have low self esteem (some self loathing/self-hate)
  • be extremely selfish
  • be driven by self-preservation and protecting themselves, and personal survival
  • lack a sense of ambition
  • not involve themselves in long-term planning
  • focus on very little items / issues / joys
  • have a sense of admiration for their oppressors
  • have a perverse sense of ‘justice’ and will accept most punishment, sometimes as being deserved
  • be scared of running their own lives / decisions (having autonomy)
  • not be risk-takers
  • have a negative interpretation of their own collective history / past and buy into the oppresssors’ views of themselves
  • believe that their masters will take care of them and so don’t want to put in extra effort to do things
  • believe they are entitled to things and expectations are set by their masters
  • collectively lack creativity, innovation and inventiveness
As stated, slaves have a different mindset to  what we expect and we cannot fully appreciate their perspective, but it is important to understand this to understand why Bani Israel behaved like they did.

There is a lot of research and philosophy around this phenomenon, which includes:
Friedrich Nietzsche's Master–slave morality essay (On the Genealogy of Morality) where he argued that there were two fundamental types of morality: 'Master morality' and 'slave morality'. Slave morality values things like kindness, humility and sympathy, while master morality values pride, strength, and nobility (the morality of the strong-willed). Master morality weighs actions on a scale of good or bad consequences unlike slave morality which weighs actions on a scale of good or evil intentions.  Unlike master morality which is sentiment, slave morality is literally re-sentiment—revaluing that which the master values. This strays from the valuation of actions based on consequences to the valuation of actions based on "intention". As master morality originates in the strong, slave morality originates in the weak - as such, it is characterized by pessimism and cynicism.

Many Muslim social commentators would say that modern Muslims are still enslaved by their former colonial masters both physically, culturally and mentally; just like many commentators would say the Afro-American community is still under a form of slavery. Points to discuss...

Death and AfterLife (part 3)
Al-Ihtidaar
There is a period before death called al-ihtidhaar. It is preparation for death and the soul may fluctuate between life and death. During this stage, the angels descend. Allah says: “Until when death approaches one of you. Our Messengers take his soul and they never neglect their duty.” The Prophet* says: “If the believing soul is leaving this world and moving into al-Akhirah [in the interface] angels will descend from the heavens. White, bright faces like the sun. They have with them a coffin from paradise and incense from paradise. So he can see them. And then the angel of death will descend. And then he will sit next to his face/head. He will say, ‘Oh you pure soul, come out to the forgiveness of Allah and His Pleasure.’ This soul will come out so smoothly, like a drop of water rolling out of a jug. For the kaafir, if he is leaving the dunya and approaching akhirah, then dark angels will come down. They are carrying coffins made of harsh materials. The angel of death will come down, sit beside him and say, ‘O you evil soul! Come out to the anger of Allah and His Wrath!’ When the angel of death will make that announcement, this soul will run around in the body. The angel of death will grab the soul and pull it out, as if you are pulling out wet wool from thorny branches.”
During this stage, there may be some discomfort for the believing soul. Allah gives comfort to the believer. He says: “Verily, those who say that there Lord if Allah and then they stay firm. On them the angels will descend, saying ‘Fear not, nor grieve, but receive the glad tidings of Paradise which you have been promised.’” (41:30) They did not say that ‘Allah is our Lord’ and then go on a crooked path. Not fasting one day and then drinking alcohol the next day. These people stayed firm, and the angels will give them glad tidings.
For the disbeliever, Allah says, “And if you could see when the angels take away the souls of those who disbelieve. They smite their faces and their backs, saying ‘Taste the punishment of the blazing fire. This is because of that which your hands forwarded. Verily, Allah is not unjust to His slaves.” Allah is not committing injustice to you. It is your actions that caused you this.
One person was asking the Prophet* wen the last hour was and the Prophet* asked him what had he done to prepare for it!
Ataa’ ibn Rabah says: “There are three benefits of remembering death:
- Ta’jeel at-tawbah: hastening repentance. You would prepare for akhirah and you would repent.
- Ar-Rida bil Qaleel: content with the minimum. You will be happy with whatever Allah has given you because you know it is a temporary residence. This is not where we belong, therefore you wouldn’t give it much concern and attention.
- Not fight and compete with people of this world over this world. And that would cause you to have tranquility in you heart. What makes people anxious and obnoxious is competing over material things. This world is large and our desires are large. The Prophet* says that if the son of Adam has a valley of gold he would request another one and nothing would please the son of Adam except dirt. Nothing would satisfy this greed except the dirt. When you go back to the dirt, it will close all of those desires. This world is not worth fighting.

Monday, 8 October 2012

07 October 2012

Summary

Seerah: Story of Ka’b ibn Malik and the Battle of Tabuk
The Prophet* set out to fight the Romans – but it was a test for the Muslims due to the season, harvest, enemy, journey
Ka’b was a leader of his people and one of the 12 Nuquba (people who pledged allegiance to the Prophet* in Aqabah) that helped to establish the Islamic State
Ka’b missed Badr but preferred Aqabah
The 30,000 Muslims needed to prepare for the long hard journey
Ka'b was able to go but kept delaying preparing
Ka'b's procrastination casued him to miss the army when it left
Only hypocrites and elderly/infirm left behind in Medina
Ka'b panics when he hears the Prophet is returning and is told to lie
Hypocrites give their excuses and the Prophet seeks their forgiveness but leaves their hearts to Allah
Ka'b, well-known poet, decides not to make up an excuse and to tell the truth: He has no excuse
Ka'b and 2 others are boycotted for a total of 50 days
Ka'b feels the city is alien and feels constricted in his repentance
The non-Muslims try to recruit Ka'b and divide the Muslims
Allah then accepts his repentance and Ka'b is overjoyed, and the other 2 men
Ka'b gives away most of his wealth and vows never to lie again
The hypocrites are condemned to Hellfire by Allah
Lying, delaying and putting things off is a bad thing


Seerah of Muhammed*
*: May the peace blessings and Mercy of Allah be upon him
TMQ: Translation to the nearest meaning of the Qur’an


Battle of Tabuk (4) – Story of Ka’b ibn Malik
Story of Ka’b ibn Malik and the Battle of Tabuk
After the Conquest of Makkah, Caeser - Ruler of Byzantium, which was considered the greatest military force on earth at the time - could no longer turn a blind eye to the activities of the Muslims. He was anxiously aware of the Arab tribes' expectations of independence, and their hopes of getting free from his reign and influence. They could not ignore the alliance of the Arab tribes on his borders to the Muslims. So he concluded that the demolition of the Muslims' power had grown an urgent necessity. This decision of his should, in his opinion, be achieved before the Muslims become too powerful to conquer, and raise troubles and unrest in the adjacent Arab territories. Thus, Caeser raised a huge army of Byzantine and pro-Roman Ghassanide tribes to launch a decisive bloody battle against the Muslims. News of this army reached the Muslims and much fear spread in their hearts. After much deliberating on the situation, the Prophet* made up his mind and ordered his companions to prepare for war. No sooner had the Muslims heard the voice of the Prophet calling them to fight the Byzantines, than they rushed to comply with his orders. Almost all the Muslims responded positively. Only those who had weakness in their hearts favoured to stay behind. They were only three people. Their story is told below:
Due to its particular circumstances, this invasion was a particularly severe trial provided by Allah only to try the believers' faith and sort them out from the others. This is Allah's permanent Will in such circumstances. In this respect He says: "Allah will not leave the believers in the state in which you are in now, until He distinguishes the wicked from the good..." [Qur'an 3:179]
Lagging behind and hanging back from full participation in that invasion amounted to a degree of hypocrisy. Whenever the Prophet* was informed of a man's lingering, he would say: "Leave him alone! If Allah knows him to be good, He will enable him to follow you; but if he were not so, Allah would relieve us of him."
Nobody stayed behind except those who were either hindered by a serious excuse or the hypocrites who told lies to Allah and His Messenger. Some of those hypocrites' lingering was due to an excuse based on forgery and delusion. Some others tarried, but didn't ask for instant permission. But there were three believers who unjustifiably lingered. They were the ones whose faith Allah tried, but later He returned to them in Mercy and accepted their repentance. One of the believers' stories is recorded below:
 

The Hadith of Ka’b
It has been related by 'Abdullah bin Ka'b bin Malik, who became Ka'b's guide from amongst his children - when he became blind. He said: I heard Ka'b bin Malik speaking about the incident concerning his non-participation during the Battle of Tabuk.
Ka'b said: I was not absent from the Prophet* during any campaign that he fought in, except the Battle of Tabuk. Nevertheless, I was absent from the Battle of Badr. However, no individual was admonished for non-participation. Indeed, the Prophet* departed in search of a caravan of the Quraish, thereafter certain events took place until Allah assembled the two armies unexpectedly. Verily, I witnessed the night of Al-'Aqabah (the pledge) with the Prophet*, the night wherein we pledged our allegiance to Islam. Furthermore I would not exchange it for participation in the Battle of Badr, regardless of the fact that the Battle of Badr is deemed more noteworthy amongst the people. In relation to my news: I had never before been stronger nor wealthier than at the time I remained behind the Prophet during that campaign. By Allah - I had never before been in possession of two she-camels, until the time of the battle.
The Prophet* would conceal his intention to embark upon a military expedition by making reference to other campaigns, until the time for that expedition arrived.
The Prophet* conducted that expedition during a season of extreme heat, undertaking a lengthy journey through desert terrain. In addition, the enemy was great in number. Thus, the Prophet clarified the matter to the Muslims, in order that they prepare themselves adequately for their campaign, and he informed them of their intended destination. The Prophet* was accompanied by a considerable number of Muslims, whose names could not be recorded in a book. Ka'b continued: Any individual who wished to remain absent would assume that his absence would pass unnoticed, unless it was revealed by Allah by means of Divine Revelation. The Prophet* undertook that expedition during a season wherein the fruit had ripened and the shade had become pleasant.
The Prophet* and the Muslims equipped themselves with the necessary provisions. I too departed in order to prepare myself, however I returned without accomplishing anything. I would say to myself: I am able to prepare myself. Hence, I continued to postpone my preparations. However the people occupied themselves in earnest with the journey, until the day arrived wherein the Prophet* and the Muslims proceeded to depart. However I had not completed any part of my preparations. I said to myself: I shall prepare myself in one or two days after his departure, and then I will join them.
The morning after their departure, I set out in order to equip myself. However, I returned without completing anything. The following morning, I set out again, nevertheless, but I returned without accomplishing anything. This continued until they hastened towards the battle, and the campaign had passed by. Nevertheless, I intended to depart and reach them, would that I had done so! However, I was not destined to do that.
After the departure of the Prophet* I would enter amongst the people and it would become a cause of sadness for me. For I did not see except the one suspected of being a hypocrite, or the weak and infirm whom Allah had excused from participation.
The Prophet* did not remember me until he arrived in Tabuk. He was sitting amongst his people in Tabuk and asked "What happened to Ka'b?" A man from amongst the tribe of Bani Salimah responded: "O Messenger of Allah, he was hindered by his garments and pleasure for his clothes and his self."
Mua'adh bin Jabal said: "What a wretched statement you have uttered. O Messenger of Allah, we do not know of him save goodness."
Hence, the Prophet* became silent. Whilst he was in that position, he saw a man clothed in a white garment real in essence (not merely a desert mirage). The Prophet* said: "May it be Abu Khaythama al-Ansaaree, he was the one who donated a measure of dates when the Munaafiqeen (Hypocrites) defamed him."
Ka'b bin Malik continued: When I learned that he had turned in order to return, I was consumed by distress, and started therefore to invent lies. I started to question myself: With what can I avoid his anger tomorrow? I sought assistance from every individual of sound mind and judgment from amongst my family.
When it was mentioned that the Messenger of Allah's arrival is imminent, the false excuses vanished from my mind. I recognized that I could not liberate myself from this predicament by means of falsehood. I therefore resolved to speak the truth.
The Prophet* arrived the following morning. It was a practice of the Prophet that upon returning from a journey, he would proceed towards the Mosque and perform a two rak'ah prayer therein, and then sit amongst the people. After those matters had taken place, the absentees approached him. They started to present their excuses and take oaths to that effect. There were over eighty men in number. The Prophet* accepted their excuses, their oaths, and sought forgiveness on their behalf. In addition, he entrusted unto Allah their secret affairs. Thereafter I approached him, and conveyed the greeting upon him. He smiled - the smile of the one enraged. Then he said: "Come forward." I therefore approached him walking until I was sitting before him. Then he said: "What prevented you from accompanying us? Had you not purchased a riding animal?"
I responded: "Of course O Messenger of Allah. However, by Allah, if I was in the presence of any other man from amongst the inhabitants of this World, I would avoid His wrath by presenting an excuse for I have been granted the ability to speak in an eloquently persuasive manner. However, I am aware that if I utter a lie today in order to seek your pleasure, certainly Allah will cause you to become enraged with me in the future. Alternatively, if I inform you of the truth, thereby causing you to become angry, I may nevertheless hope for Allah's Pardon. No, By Allah I have no excuse to present. I had never before been stronger nor wealthier than during the time I neglected to accompany you."
The Prophet* replied: "In relation to this man - he has spoken the truth. Therefore, stand until Allah pronounces judgment in this matter." I therefore stood, a group of men from the tribe of Bani Salimah became disorderly and started following me. They addressed me: "By Allah - we have not known you to commit a misdeed. Verily you erred in not excusing yourself before the Prophet* in a similar manner to the other absentees who excused themselves. The Messenger of Allah's action of seeking forgiveness for your misdeed would have been sufficient for you." They continued to reprimand me until I desired to return to the Prophet and fabricate a lie against myself (contradict my story). However I questioned them: "Is there any other individual in a similar position?" They responded: "Yes, there are two men who uttered the same statement as you and both received the same directive as you did." I asked: "Who are these two men?" They answered: "Murarah bin al-Rabee' and Hilaal bin Umayyah al-Waaqifee."
By their statement, they had made reference to two virtuous men who had participated in the Battle of Badr, and were examples to be followed. After they had mentioned these two men I remained steadfast upon my original statement.
Thereafter, the Prophet* prohibited the Muslims from speaking to us -namely the three individuals from amongst us who had neglected to accompany him. As a consequence the people avoided us and altered their conduct towards us, until the land wherein I lived appeared foreign, not one which I was familiar with. We remained in that state for a period of fifty nights. In relation to my companions - they surrendered themselves to their houses and remained seated therein, weeping. However, I was the youngest and most forbearing of the three, I would therefore exit the house in order to perform the prayer with the other Muslims.
I would wander around the markets, yet no one would speak to me. I would approach the Prophet* and convey the greeting upon him whilst he was sitting amidst his gatherings, which took place upon completion of the prayer. I would question myself: Did his lips move in the act of reciprocating the greeting upon me or not? Thereafter, I would perform the prayer close by him, and look towards him in a surreptitious manner. When I occupied myself with the prayer, he would turn towards me. However, when I looked in his direction, he would avoid me. When this period of estrangement lengthened, I set out to walk until I climbed upon the wall of Abu Qatadah's garden. He was my cousin and amongst the most beloved of people to me. I conveyed the greeting upon him, and by Allah -he did not reciprocate the greeting upon me. Hence, I said: "O Abu Qatadah: I implore you by Allah, are you aware that I love Allah and His Messenger?" He remained silent. I appealed to him by Allah a second time, however he remained silent. Then he responded: "Allah and His Messenger are greater in knowledge." Thereupon tears flowed from my eyes, I turned away and climbed over the wall. He continued: Whilst I was walking in the market in Medina I saw a Christian farmer from amongst the farmers of Shaam, who had travelled to Medina in order to sell their produce. He said: "Who shall direct me to towards Ka'b bin Malik?" The people started to gesture towards me, until he approached me and presented me with a letter from the King of Ghassan, in which it was written:
'To proceed, it has come to our attention that your companion has dealt with you in a harsh manner. Allah has not rendered this world for you as a dwelling of disgrace and degradation, nor one of loss and ruin. So join us and we shall bestow upon you comfort and consolation.' Upon reading the letter I said to myself: This too is a trial placed before me. I therefore placed the letter in the oven and created a fire by burning it therein.
When a period of forty out of fifty nights had passed, the messenger of the Prophet* approached me and said: "The Prophet* commands you to distance yourself from your wife." I said: "Should I divorce her, or what must I do?" He responded: "No, distance yourself from her and do not approach her. The Prophet has issued a similar directive to your two companions." Hence, I said to my wife: "Go to your parents and remain with them until Allah passes judgment in this matter."
Ka'b said: The wife of Hilaal bin Umayyah came to the Apostle of Allah and said: "O Messenger of Allah, verily Hilaal bin Umayyah is an elderly man who is incapable of taking care of himself. Furthermore, he is not in possession of a servant, would you therefore object if I was to serve him?" He responded: "No, but he must not approach you." She said: "By Allah, he has no desire for any matter. By Allah, he has not ceased to weep from the day this matter started until this time now." Some of my family members questioned me: "Why don't you seek permission from the Prophet* concerning your wife, as he has granted permission for the wife of Hilaal bin Umayyah to serve him?" I responded: "By Allah, I shall not seek permission from the Prophet* concerning her. I am not aware of what the Prophet* would say if I sought his permission in relation to her whilst I am still a young man." I remained in that state for an additional ten nights, until fifty nights had been completed from the point that he had prohibited the people from speaking to us.
On the morning of the fiftieth night, I performed the Fajr prayer upon the roof of one of our houses. I was experiencing a condition which Allah had mentioned in the Book: 'My soul had become contracted, and the earth had contracted upon me despite its vastness.'
Suddenly I heard a clear voice emanating from the direction of Mount Sala. Somebody announced with his loudest voice: "O Ka'b bin Malik, I confer upon you glad tidings!" I prostrated myself upon the ground. I realized that relief from this tribulation had arrived and that the Prophet* had indicated that Allah had granted us penitence. After the Fajr prayer, the people thereupon proceeded forth to congratulate us, and bearers of glad tidings departed to my two companions. A horseman raced towards me in order to congratulate me and a messenger from the tribe of Aslam raced towards the mountain and scaled it in order to make the announcement. I heard his voice before that of the horseman. When the individual whose voice I had heard approached me to convey the glad tidings, I removed my garments and clothed him in them. By Allah, on that day I was not in possession of any other garments, I therefore borrowed two items, clothed myself and proceeded towards the Prophet*. People started receiving me in groups, congratulating me upon the acceptance of my penitence. They said: "We congratulate you upon Allah's acceptance of your repentance." When I entered the Mosque, the Prophet* was sitting, surrounded by people. Talha bin 'Ubaidullah hastened towards me. He shook my hand, and congratulated me. By Allah, no one from amongst the Muhaajireen (Emigrants) stood in order to greet me save him, and I shall never forget Talha's action in doing so Ka'b said: When I greeted the Prophet* , his face was radiant with happiness, and he said: "I give you the glad tidings of the best day you have witnessed since your mother gave birth to you." Ka'b continued: "Is this from you or from Allah?" He responded: "No, it is from Allah."
Whenever the Prophet* became delighted, his face became illuminated until it resembled a piece of the moon. We recognized that this matter was characteristic of him. When I sat before him, I said: "O Messenger of Allah, by virtue of the acceptance of my repentance, I shall donate the sum total of my wealth in charity for the sake of Allah and His Messenger." The Prophet* responded: "Retain a portion of your wealth, for it is better for you to do so." I said: "I shall retain a portion of my wealth in Khaibar. O Messenger of Allah, verily Allah has delivered me from this tribulation because I spoke the truth. My penitence therefore dictates that I shall speak only the truth as long as I live."
By Allah, I am not aware of any individual from amongst the Muslims whom Allah has blessed for speaking the truth more than myself, from the time wherein I mentioned those words of truth to the Prophet* . In addition, I have never intended to utter a falsehood from the time wherein I mentioned those words of truth to the Prophet* to the present day. Furthermore, I hope that Allah will protect me from uttering falsehood during the remaining portion of my life. Allah revealed the Verse to His Messenger: "Allah has forgiven the Prophet, the Muhaajireen, and the Ansaar...(to His statement)...Be with those who are truthful..." [Qur'an 9:117-119]
By Allah, after guiding me to Islam, Allah has not bestowed upon me a favour - greater in magnitude - than my statement of truth to the Apostle of Allah , and my action of not uttering a lie to him. For I would have destroyed myself, as those who uttered lies were destroyed. Allah ascribed to those who had uttered falsehood, a description more evil than he had ascribed to any other individual, when He revealed His Revelation. Allah, Blessed be He, the Most High stated: "They will swear by Allah to you when you return to them, that you may turn away from them. So turn away from them. Surely, they are impure, and Hell is their dwelling place - a recompense for that which they used to earn. They (the hypocrites) swear to you (Muslims) that you may be pleased with them, but if you are pleased with them, certainly Allah is not pleased with people who are defiantly rebellious." [Qur'an 9:95-96]
Ka'b continued: We, the three who neglected to participate, differed from those whose excuses were accepted by the Prophet* when they swore to him to that effect. He accepted their pledge of allegiance and sought forgiveness for them. However, the Prophet* deferred our case until Allah passed judgment in relation to it. With reference to that, Allah said: "He also forgave the three who remained behind..." [Qur'an 9:118]
In this Verse Allah did not refer to our non-participation in the military expedition. However it refers to the postponement and deferment of the Messenger in the act of passing judgment. In contrast to the one who took an oath before him and excused himself: an action which was accepted by the Prophet*
As for those who were needy and poor, even they came to the Prophet out of a yearning desire to join the blessed Jihad. However, the Prophet* could find no mounts for them, and they turned away, grief stricken with their eyes full of tears that they could not accompany the expedition. Regarding them, Allah mentioned in the Qur'an: "Nor (is there blame) on those who came to you to be provided with mounts, and when you said: "I can find no mounts for you," they turned back, while their eyes overflowing with tears of grief that they could not find anything to spend (for Jihad)." [Qur'an 9:92]
And regarding them, the Prophet said to his companions as they returned to Medina: "Inside Medina, there are certain men, who though being left back due to serious excuses, they have, all the time, been with you. Lingerers as they are, they have been while you were passing valleys or walking along roads." "Do you mean that they have done that while they are still in Medina?" They wondered. "Yes though they are in Medina."

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Seerah ~ Read Surah at-Taubah (AKA al-Baraa – chapter 9 of Qur’an. Which is your favourite verse(s)?

Main topic (Qur'an) ~ Who could have possibly wrote (authored) the Qur'an at the time of the Prophet*?