Tuesday, 18 November 2014

16 November 2014: Being Happy Brief Summary

16 November 2014: Being Happy Brief Summary

InshaAllah, full Summary to follow

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Salaam all.
I do hope you all enjoyed and learned something useful from last week’s Study Circle.
Before I upload / circulate the full summary later this week, inshaAllah, I will do a brief summary of the main points from the Circle.
The reason is that we covered a lot of ground and it is important to highlight the salient aspects of the session. We should focus upon the key elements of change and start to change our mindset. The process of change will not take days but weeks or months of dedicated focus – but that journey needs to start soon (if not already started).
Hence, do reflect upon what I talked about and bring any queries and clarifications to next week’s Circle – inshaAllah, I will try to address them.

In brief, we started off by making a list of important things we need to do this week...

- We analysed the types of happiness at different stages in Life

- I talked about the fisherman and capitalist

- Covey’s Rocks in a bottle, with pebbles, sand and water

- Hence: What are your ‘Big Rocks’

- Happiness and material progress in Western civilisation has not resulted in a happier people

- Western and Eastern Philosophers differed on happiness but none got it right

- There are checklists but these are all in the Western Paradigm of happiness (10 Steps, & Habits Happy people etc)



The True and Islamic Perspective is that we need to fundamentally change the way we look at life and our perspective on all matters.

- I gave the example of the lines drawn and the speech of Khansaa.

- I reminded people about the fundamental process of the Belief Pathway from 3 Questions through to the Pleasure of Allah for the Afterlife

- Hence Allah alone decides what is ‘Right’ and ‘Wrong’, what is ‘Good’ and ‘Bad’, what makes Him ‘pleased’ and what ‘angers’ Him, and so what should make us ‘Happy’ and ‘Sad’

- Our priority as Slaves of Allah is to make Allah Pleased with us (like the yearning of a child to his mother)

- The Qur’an and Sunnah is our guide for this

- We should also have firm conviction in the central belief of al-Qadhaa Wal-Qadr and how things that happen outside our control are from Allah and we should deal with them as such

- We should contextualise wealth and not get hung up on competing with the rich – as our Rizq is fixed

- Finally, this world is temporary and we shouldn’t be too attached to it; and focus on what we can take beyond the grave.

- What will be our legacy (earthly footprint) in addition to the deeds we do?

- And so, ‘In the remembrance of Allah do the hearts find rest/tranquillity’ [TMQ 13:28] and focus on pleasing Allah for our own happiness as He knows what is best for us as He created us that way

InshaAllah, I will give a fuller explanation/review later this week with the full examples and evidences and circulate it on the WhatsApp group and upload on the website: www.harborneislam.blogspot.com

Until then I will recirculate the Belief Pathway and do take some time to review, reflect and discuss with each other.
Thank you for listening and reading.
As always, any mistakes are mine and all the Good is from Allah.
Jzk
Naveed

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